Assuming the responsibility of care for a family member could be the strongest expression of love and loyalty that one human can show to another. It doesn’t matter if care is provided every day of the week or a couple of days a week , caregiving has the ability to be physically and emotionally draining. That is why, in spite of the rewards of caring for an aging parent, it is necessary for the caregiver to supply themselves with some of the same attention that they give mom or dad.
Rested Caregivers-Better Care
Caregivers who are not overwhelmed and burned out provide a better standard of care and enjoy a healthier mindset. They are able to focus on the blessing of having their aging parent with them at home as opposed to a full-time facility. They find contentment in providing good, loving care that no one else could provide in quite the same loving way. Caregiving seems like one of the most rewarding jobs when the caregiver is healthy and balanced, comfortable and at peace.
Respite Care is Just the Ticket
However, sustaining that mind-set is a complicated balancing act when the caregiver does not take sufficient time for themselves. That is why it is so vital for caregivers to take weekend or even week long breaks where the focus is on them. Maybe the trip is a cruise to Greece or a weekend at a local bed and breakfast. The location does not matter. What does matter is that the caregiver gets time to rest, relax and let go of some responsibilities for a while. Doing so makes them a far better caregiver and greatly benefits the care receiver.
Reluctant to Try Home Care?
Taking a break sounds great, but many caregivers are reluctant to do so. Perhaps they don’t feel that family members and friends will be able to care for their loved one adequately, or they are afraid to impose what they feel are their responsibilities onto someone else’s shoulders. Respite care is the clear, common sense solution in these situations. Highly trained, well qualified professionals employed by home care agencies provide specialized services within private homes. Many are experienced at working with people of various abilities and with wide ranging illnesses, making them qualified to assist even with the most complicated conditions of care receivers. Home care has the advantage of allowing the elder to remain in a familiar environment.
What About Assisted Living?
Another option for respite care is found at assisted living facilities where care receivers may take up residence for a brief, pre-determined period of time. Care receivers may benefit from increased activity and social interaction. It’s also reassuring to know that the older parent is living in a facility that gives round the clock medical care and has access to emergency services.
Happy Caregivers are Better Caregivers
Taking a break from caring for mom or dad is not a selfish act, nor is it one that should induce guilt. Instead, a break is an act of love for the self and for the care receiver. With a little quality time for themselves, care givers are prepared to give the best possible love and attention to their aging parents.
For all of your respite care needs in Woolwich Township NJ and the surrounding areas call and talk to us at Home to Stay Healthcare Solutions (856) 720-0081
Home to Stay Senior Care Solutions is owned and operated by the Dubler and Skole Families and was started because of experiences they had with their own Families. In one situation Mom was living alone and had a fall. It was not until this fall that the family realized they were unprepared.
When it was time for their Mom to come home, she needed companion and personal care to assist her and prevent another accident. Like most people in this situation, they were confused and did not know where to go for help. It was this life-changing experience that lead to starting a home care company that is focused on enabling those who wish to stay at home and age in place.
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