Implementing advice is difficult for a lot of people. Sometimes that’s difficult because the situation or the advice is so foreign to your known experiences, but there can be other reasons, too. These issues might be factoring in.
You’re Caught up in Daily Activities
The daily to and fro of being a caregiver feels like it might never stop. There’s always something that needs to be handled and if your senior needs hands-on care, you might feel as if you never catch a moment to even think. This is why it’s so important to consider hiring elder care providers. They can help to free up your time so that you can focus where you’re needed most.
You Want to Do Better
Caregivers constantly want to be better and do better for their elderly family member, their family, and even themselves. It’s not so easy to do, though. Part of that is because you’re already amazing, even if it’s not easy to see that right now. Give yourself a break and realize that you’re doing so much as it is.
Your Emotions Get the Better of You
Caregiving is emotionally taxing. It’s tough to see your senior’s life and abilities changing every single day. This is typically someone who has been a big part of your life and who has likely always been able to handle things. Now you’re handling them for her and it’s a big change. Give yourself space to experience the feelings that you’re feeling and don’t judge yourself for them.
You’re Worried that You’re Not Getting Enough Advice
Something you might not realize is that you could be holding out for even more advice. Caregiving is a brand new experience for so many caregivers and even though they may know the basics of how to care for their specific senior, they still feel adrift. Joining a support group can help, because you’ll meet other caregivers who can share their stories and reassure you that you’re on the right path, no matter how much advice you’re seeking.
Slow down and let yourself breathe for a little bit. You don’t have to revamp everything that you’re doing all at once, but there may be little tricks and tips here and there that you can try. Also, remember that just because something is great advice, that doesn’t mean it works the same way for everyone. Your situation is unique to you and your family.
For elder care in Cherry Hill, NJ, and the surrounding areas, call and talk to us at Home to Stay Healthcare Solutions (856) 720-0100.
Home to Stay Senior Care Solutions is owned and operated by the Dubler and Skole Families and was started because of experiences they had with their own Families. In one situation Mom was living alone and had a fall. It was not until this fall that the family realized they were unprepared.
When it was time for their Mom to come home, she needed companion and personal care to assist her and prevent another accident. Like most people in this situation, they were confused and did not know where to go for help. It was this life-changing experience that lead to starting a home care company that is focused on enabling those who wish to stay at home and age in place.